Spicey Talkative

Let's shed some light on a sexual identity that is often shrugged off and misunderstood. You’ve probably heard a lot of stereotypes/jokes about bisexuality, the bastard stepchild of sexual orientations. Most people can’t even agree on a definition of bisexuality, which has led to a lot of confusion, angst and reality shows starring Tila Tequila.

Grab your coke and popcorn, it is about to get pretty interesting from this point. In the world of entertainment, nothing you do as an entertainer is hidden and so when you’re happy, the whole world gets the juicy deets and also, when you’re going through the worst break up in the world, the whole world gets front row seats while your life plays out for them to see. And that is how this list came to be. Below are the most embarrassing and messiest celebrity break ups the Nigerian entertainment industry ever witnessed. Funke Akindele and Kehinde Almaroof Oloyede Ms Akindele and her ex husband got married after different speculations about the actress’ single status in her mid thirties. The wedding was inarguably one of the biggest events that year and it almost became a red carpet event with the number of stars that turned out but less than a year later, rumors began to swirl about Funke’s marriage. And even though she tried to keep it private, her then husband went on Face

1. Only 5 percent of men around the world wear condoms. Keep in mind, this is a cross section of a variety of different countries that may or may not have easy access to contraception. But still, 5 percent is low. Really low. Especially considering the goal is 100 percent.

​1. The way you've chosen to arrange your pubic hair. Pubic hair is to your vagina (or penis) the way a lawn is to a house: Most people aren't going to be too bothered by it as long as it looks like someone lives there. It doesn't have to be perfectly manicured. No one wants a spooky, boarded-up vagina that looks like a haunted house, but other than that, it's all good.

It is now a common scene to see how guys trash ladies both online and offline. Female bashing has become a norm that people no longer see anything good in our ladies whose bad sides outweighs the good sides. Sometimes, even as a guy, I shed tears when guys often imply that ladies only have few minutes pleasure to offer them and just few of them can truly make their dreams come true (I think this assertion is true to a reasonable extent) To be candid from the statistical point of view, the rate at which guys air their views and opinion about our ladies, one can jump to conclusion that good girls are now going into extinction or good girls are like needles in the occean which are very rare to find. However, good ladies have now become a treasure and a rare gem that when you find one, you have to give testimony in church. I will try as much as possible not to sound harsh before they tag me a misogynist, because I know that many detest the truth. Though it may come as bashing but I

Have you ever felt like there is something wrong with your relationship? Like there is something missing? Or have you ever felt like the man is just using you? Have you ever had this gut feeling that he is not really into you? To answer your fears here are the 8 signs that show he is just using you:- 1. He has cheated on you When a man cheats and you found out and all that he can say is that he is sorry, then just know he doesn’t care about you, he doesn’t respect you enough not to cheat on you. He is not into you and bottom line he is using you.

This is exclusively for the ladies, but if you are a male and you are reading this, you are so much welcome to this topic. I believe you (male) have being wondering if the ladies do shave their private part’s (vagina as meant in this article) hair.

These reasons make you want to fall in love with one of the many coloured and multi-dimensional Vibrators of different tribes and race. The alarming rate of ladies carrying Vibrators in their bags is disturbing. Some others have it in the drawers or wardrobes, neatly tucked away till the moment arrives. Stores that sell sex toys are struggling to meet the demand for dildos and vibrators. When you speak with these set of Nigerian girls about it, their cogent reasons make you want to fall in love with one of the many coloured and multi-dimensional Vibrators of different tribes, race and colour. Here are some reasons.

A man does not need to be intimate with you to have sex. For women, sex is a sign of intimacy. To men, sex and intimacy are like water and oil. They do not mix. A man does not need to be intimate with you to have sex. For women, sex is a sign of intimacy. Here is why they love cuddling after sex.

Experts say sexuality is beyond having sex. It is actually a form of emotional bonding for couples. To men, sex and intimacy are like water and oil. They do not mix. In the midst of different definitions of sex, it is important to highlight what healthy sexuality, or a healthy sex life is. Experts say sexuality is beyond having sex. It is actually a form of emotional bonding for couples. They say it also leads to “multitude of psychological, mental, physical, and marital benefits. ” 1.  You do not interest yourself in the sexual act all the time. Non-sexual touching is also a healthy form of intimacy.

More and more men are finding it hard to produce these days. It is not that they are not sweating enough, or that they are “unhealthy”, but something is wrong. Though other factors contribute, damaged sperm is a major reason for many a couple’s infertility issues. In many cases, the man’s weapon may be the reason for losing the childbearing war… Researchers have shown that a man’s lifestyle can affect the quality and quantity of his sperm, hence fertility issues. Anyway, here are some ways men unwittingly cause the damage:

I just received this email from a LIB reader with shocking photos. Read her story below… Here are pics of an incident that happened in my area last two Saturdays. A guy went to his friend’s place with his babe. A few hours later, the girl came out screaming rape rape rape. And later the guy came out too screaming help help help. The girl had blood on her clothes and then she was given a cloth to cover herself. But when the guy came out with blood on his body everyone was shocked and that’s when we knew the girl bit off his penis and this was done with her teeth. The guy was taken to the hospital but when they got to the hospital they realized that the other part was no longer there. They had to come back home to look for the remaining part, but by then its dead, though they stitched it he’s still in the hospital. Photos attached… Now the photos are quite graphic so viewers discretion is advised…

One thing to know is that, having sex will never change you as a person….. Getting disvirgined should be handled as a big deal. You really don’t want to face regret a few hours, days or years after losing it, which is why it’s best you wait until you are totally ready. One thing to know is that, having sex will never change you as a person and several others things about your relationship status will never change after you lose your virginity.

A prophet with a ‘White Garment’ church in a suburb of Lagos, identified simply as ‘Woli Adesoji’, has reportedly died during sex with the wife of his close friend and an elder in the church.

Below…. 1. The Chatterbox This is the woman who never shuts up, barely stopping to breathe. Seemingly only concerned about what is going on in her life, she always has to make a comment about everything and dominates conversations.

Have you ever heard that song called s exual Healing? It’s not just a metaphor. sex can actually heal. It can heal your body and mind and prevent lots of diseases. Some say it’s the first medicine ever known to man and it should be administered daily. Sounds too good to be true? Let’s discover the four reasons for which a man should have s ex each day.

The naked man pictured above is a respected businessman tycoon based in Benue State, Nigeria. The man name withheld was caught in the bush with a young girl old to be his daughter getting along. Eyewitness saw them then called the police and the man was arrested and taken to the police station.

Flavour’s on-and-off girlfriend, Anna Banner (20) And former Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria has reportedly given birth to a baby girl. According to close family sources, Anna delivered her baby last weekend  at a United States hospital. Flavour also has a daughter with his other girlfriend, former Delta Soap queen Sandra Okagbue. In May Anna Banner was spotted at a wedding with Flavour in Enugu. Congrats to Anna Banner and Flavour .

A popular exotic dancer from St Louis who went by the stage name Mulani Mulan died from fake booty injection. 22 year old Daysha Philips (pictured above) died a few days after she and three other women received illegal behindock injections in a hotel room near Lambert Airport in St Louis. Daysha's family told local reporters that she felt ill almost immediately after the procedure and then went into respiratory distress . She was taken to the hopsital where she died four days later. "The victim went into respiratory distress, it was determined by family members what had occurred that could have led up to it," said Chief Miklos Hurocy of the Edmundson Police Department. "They added two and two together and we were notified." Police say it will take some weeks before the St. Louis County Medical Examiner's Office knows exactly what was injected into Daysha. Meanwhile, police are working to gather information from the surviving victims and to track down a

Hello Admin….I want to share a secret part of myself ..what I usually like a guy or my man to do to me when we are servicing ourselves…I really love these particular methods. If guys would follow these steps, their women would always come back begging for more Kissing and touching even su-ck-ing. It can make or break the chances of things going further. Nothing is a bigger turnoff than kissing someone who cant smo-och, or a sloppily drunk, or who is blind to body language. Strike a balance with the tongue. Oh, and please close your eyes when s-u-c-k-i-n my b0=0bs. Want to get your woman w3t and ready? Start up top. Su-ck-ing and (lightly, for most) biting the neck and ear feels incredible, as long as you don’t linger too long. Then get down to the middle spot in between her legs and cause the center of her gravity to shake. Women have br-e@-sts, and we like you to play with them, s-u-c-k on them and maybe even tease them with your teeth. Our ni-pp-l3s are also often very sensitive,

Beautiful ladies! Contestants of Brazil’s popular pageant, Miss Bumbum 2015, caused traffic gridlock yesterday August 4th as they took a stroll on the streets of Sau Paulo in Brazil to campaign for public votes in the competition. Only 15 of them with the highest number of votes from the public will be allowed to contest in the grand finale. See more photos below:

      Wow! Susan looks really cute! She recently shaved her hair and she looks younger!

                                                              Paul & wife, Anita “I never knew it’s a beautiful experience until I married my wife. If you are not married, you will never discover the truth about it,Whenever I sit down and look at my kids, I always say, Oh my God, these are my kids! I love my kid and I love my wife. That’s why I’m always smiling.

1. Enough about oysters, already!   If you want to put some sizzle back into your sex life, food can help you set the mood. There’s nothing better than a romantic, home-cooked dinner, featuring some R-rated foods to help turn up the heat. “There’s a growing body of evidence that some of the vitamins and components in foods can enhance sexual function and sexual experience,” says Jennifer R. Berman, MD, the director of the Berman Women’s Wellness Center, in Beverly Hills, Calif. Here are some of the food ingredients (and my own favorite recipes) that have been major players in aphrodisiac history and lore, and also have modern-day science to back up their claims.

It gets more annoying when they complain about your boss, especially when you like both your boss and coworker. It could be frustrating having to listen to a coworker's whining of how life has been unfair to him/her. It gets more annoying when they complain about your boss, especially when you like both your boss and coworker. This puts your loyalty to test and you really don't want to throw one person under the bus.  Three ways to deal with your co-worker without getting into trouble: 

Fertility drops after 35, making it tougher for some women to get pregnant. Here, four women share their stories of trying to get pregnant. I just wanted one more baby "I conceived easily when I was 30 and again at age 32. When I turned 36, I wanted one more child. I quickly got pregnant but miscarried at 12 weeks. After seeing a fertility specialist, I conceived with an IUI, but that pregnancy also ended in miscarriage. I felt strange after that: I kept having hot flashes, and I wasn't getting my period. Six months after the miscarriage, I got shocking news: I was in premature ovarian failure. Once I got my wits about me, I decided to use an egg donor. My husband required a little more convincing. We had two beautiful children already, he felt—why did we need to keep trying to get more? But I was determined. I knew how awesome it was to be a mom, and I wasn't going to give up the opportunity. The process of finding a donor was strange: I ended up picking someone who di

Anger management by Tocatif 1 . Getting into a heated argument doesn't just put you in a bad mood. It can also compromise your ability to perform everyday tasks—like driving—in ways that could be dangerous for you or the people around you. Here, top experts discuss what you should never do when under the influence of anger, with tips for regaining your composure.

We’re living in a fast world with cheap thrills and easy sex available around every corner. Here’s how to stay sane and safe. I am all for sex. And I am delighted that we are living in the times we are now, with greater equality than ever before and so much more fun to be had by so many more people. That said, sex is something that can go wrong very quickly. And when it goes wrong, the consequences are devastating. We know that with great power comes great responsibility, and this extends to the bedroom (and the backseat of your car or the kitchen table or the shower or wherever else you plan to get off). So when we’re dealing with something that is both so intimate and so explosive, it’s necessary to take certain precautions. The sensible man and woman will have these three conversations before embarking on a sexual relationship. 1)    Consent You never want to find yourself in a situation where consent is dubious. With the rape stats being what they are, any normal person wo

Break-ups and Facebook - oh the agony. There should be rules on what to post about your ex after a break-up. Many years ago I went through a horrible break-up. Even though the relationship had become toxic and damaging, and I knew intellectually that the break was best all around, I was still heartbroken. Now, going through a break-up is bad enough, add Facebook and it becomes sheer agony. Is anything more painful after a break-up than seeing a photograph of a loved one gazing longingly into a new loves eyes, or sharing a passionate kiss, or reading the sickening captions, ‘’thanks to my #bestgirlfriendever for breakfast in bed this morning’’?  So why torture oneself? Just block, unfriend or take a Facebook break while healing from a broken heart. Easy. And easier said than done. Trying hard not to stalk your ex Almost five years ago, soon after my break-up (I shall refer to my ex as X), my hand hovered over the keys of my computer. Don’t do it, I told myself, you

 . Sex is between a man and a woman, with a penis in a vagina. Where does that leave people who are intersex, homosexual or transgender? Or those who don't like penetration? Or those who only practice anal or oral sex? Are lesbians not having sex when they get each other off? Think of 'sex' as an umbrella term for all the consensual sexy acts that get you hot and bothered with someone else – or yourself. Maybe people are uncomfortable thinking of 'real sex' as anything but PIV (penis in vagina) sex, because considering 'sex' as an inclusive term raises guilty feels about when you first experienced sex or lost your ‘virginity’. Which brings me to…

Get buff for the bedroom There are two secrets to great sex that nobody talks about: strength and flexibility. Sculpting and stretching key muscles can mean the difference between finishing strong and kinking up (or conking out!) mid-session. Integrate these targeted exercises into your usual workout routine to feel much more pleasure tonight—and tone up while you’re at it. For super flexibility Whether you’re dying to test out a new move, or just want to be able to wrap your legs around him, this stretch from Leslie Howard, a yoga instructor in Oakland, California, will help. It opens up the inner thighs and pelvic floor, limbering you up for any position. • Lie facedown on the floor with two rolled-up towels supporting your pelvis and thighs and your arms reaching out in front of you. Bend arms and legs at 90-degree angles, into a position that resembles a frog. Hold for 3 minutes, then release. For lower body power Certain positions, like you straddling him, can exhaus

                           “We’re trying to do our part to bring light to this injustice." Nearly 500 years after Martin Luther nailed his 95 Theses to the door of a church in Germany, United Methodist Church pastors in Lansing, Michigan used the same symbolic move with the hopes of starting a reformation of their own. More than 50 activists, many of them clergy, assembled outside the office of the West Michigan Conference's Bishop Deborah Lieder Kiesey on Tuesday. They read a pledge asking the UMC to "Stop The Harm" done by church leaders to LGBT people, then taped the pledges to the office's front door. "We hereby declare that we DO NOT accept what is directly contradictory to the teachings of Jesus and Methodist's founder John Wesley," the pledge states.   The LGBT advocates were protesting on behalf of Rev. Benjamin Hutchison, a gay African Methodist Episcopal pastor who was spiritual leader of the Cassopolis United Methodist Church. H

Pop queen, Beyonce is pregnant again. The singer got lucky the second time around and the world finally knows why Beyonce has been covering her belly for the past few months. Although the couple hasn’t made an official statement regarding their second child, here are a few things you should know about Beyonce’s journey until she arrived at her second pregnancy. 1. Beyonce has battled fertility problems in the past and even took medication in the hope that she would be blessed with a second child. A source close to Beyonce told OK! Magazine that the medication took a toll on the singer as she experienced mood fluctuations, weight gain, breakouts and more.  2. The singer tried the old-fashioned method but struggled to get pregnant and finally gave in to medication. The couple even saw a fertility doctor, like Kim Kardashian and Kanye West did also not long ago.  3. Although we don’t know much about how long gone she is, it is safe to guess that Beyonce is still in her first trimeste

Ghanaian actress, Yvonne Nelson has some advice for ladies who are looking forward to dating male celebs. While speaking on Joy FM, the actress said she wouldn’t allow what happened to her to happen to any other lady if she had the power. The actress, who once dated singer, Iyanya and ended up with a heart-break, said male celebrities are not trustworthy. According to her; ‘Male celebrities are dishonest men who cannot be trusted,’ She however said men can go ahead and date female celebrities as they are more trustworthy than their male colleagues....

Gunners, you have an addition to your impressive list of members! DJ Cuppy, who used to be a fan of Chelsea FC, has jumped ship ahead of the 2015/2016 Season. The dashing female DJ has pitched her tent with another London club, Arsenal FC thanks to a family member she simply referred to as Prince Otedola. Spotting an Arsenal jersey, the daughter of billionaire businessman, Femi Otedola announced on Instagram today with the accompanying message: ‘Hello Arsenal!’...

Selebobo has dropped new track titled ‘Miracle Girl’. The music producer and MMMG act celebrated his birthday yesterday, July 29, 2015 and has a new song for his fans. To listen to ‘Miracle Girl’, .click here to download.. https://my.notjustok.com/track/download/id/27066  

Winner of Project Fame Season 7, Geoffrey has released visuals for his new song, ‘Monalisa’. The video was directed by Mr Miyagi.... 

Ghanaian actress, Jackie Appiah took a trip to the United States for some fun and she surely had fun from what we can see The Ghanaian actress took to Instagram to share moments from her vacation with her fans. In the first photo, she’svat the departure point at the airport with the caption: ‘Disney World Loading….’. In the last photo, she’s seen with her bags fully packed and heading back home, with smiles all over....